Questions about SoulMates

I have been having an intense connection with someone.

Q. I have been having an intense connection with someone. I thought this person could be my SoulMate but now all sorts of difficulties seem to be surfacing. ? How do I know if this is my Twin Flame?

A. We invite you, first, to read our sections on this website about SoulMates or Twin Flames. Over the years the Messages from God have greatly expanded our consciousness and our understanding of Twin Flames. We have come to realize that the divine relationship that is called the SoulMate, the Divine Complement, the Twin Flame, is far greater, grander than anything we know as relationship on Earth. For a moment we ask you to make a leap in consciousness beyond your questions about a specific person and ponder the following.

The Messages from God have shown that, indeed, each of us was created by God at the Moment of Creation with a Twin Flame (or SoulMate). So, yes, each of us does have a Twin Flame. With that Twin Flame, we are a unique and individual cell in God’s heart with its own signature or vibration — one being but with two streams of consciousness. These are referred to as the Divine Masculine and the Divine Feminine, the grand forces or electrical currents of Creation (the “two who are one”).

However, this is not about gender of bodies on Earth. We do not speak here of bodies at all. Being in bodies here on Earth is only one of many experiences we have all had as beings of consciousness. Anyone here on Earth with whom we create relationship could only be a reflection your Twin Flame, because the Twin is an energy form that is so much larger, grander than bodies on Earth that a body could not “contain” it, merely reflect it.

Think of it this way: God has told us that if we imagined a huge picture frame that had a tiny dot down in the corner, that dot would represent us in a body on Earth relative to who we are!

So, the Twin Flame is NOT simply another person in a physical body to whom you are attracted on the Earth plane. Your Twin Flame is an integral part of your own energy field that is and has always been with you — before, during and after your life in a body. Even though you may not see or feel this being, you have never been apart from your Twin Flame, nor can you be. You were created together and you are the same energy.

A great transformation is occurring in our world — a return to the truth that Love and only Love is Real. There is a great ever-expanding out-pouring of Love to each of us from our beloved Creator at this important moment. This is opening hearts rapidly and bringing people all over the planet to feel an increasing desire for deep relationship, true Love, the Love of the SoulMate. People are feeling new experiences of Love in their lives on all levels as never before.

There is nothing more important than this Love. Every opening in any heart contributes to the increase of Love on Earth. The opening of hearts is the critical shift which will change our world in all the ways that we all desire. In this or any relationship in which you are involved, do your very best to open your heart. Release judgment, comparison, contrast, demands, expectations the best you can, and ask God through your heart to lead you in all your relationships to the highest heart resonance possible. Know that if you ask for this, you will be guided and your heart will open.

I have recently met my SoulMate but…

Q. I have recently met my SoulMate but he is married and lives in another city. I too am married and have children. I am wondering what to do. Should I break up my relationship to be with him? Please help!

A. We invite you to read all of our sections on SoulMates, Twin Flames. The answers you seek are there.

At this moment on Earth we are in a powerful period of transition in which hearts are opening very quickly, creating many Love attractions and different scenarios. Many people contact us concerning situations in which the opening of the heart has drawn two people together, one or both of whom are currently still in a commitment to another partner. Hearts are opening at different rates.

It is important to understand that the SoulMate or Twin Flame is not another being in a body on Earth. Relationships on Earth are reflections of a much deeper truth. This is described in the SoulMates, Twin Flames section and in the previous letter as well. Anyone here on Earth with whom we create relationship could only be a reflection of your Twin Flame, because the Twin is an energy form that is so much larger, grander than bodies on Earth that a body could not “contain” it, merely reflect it.

If you are experiencing a strong attraction to someone who is not free, it is of utmost importance to re-establish a deep connection with God and ask that the highest good of all be served. The little mind often leads us to believe that a change in our life situation will solve everything. The truth is in desiring Love, you have drawn to yourself someone who is not fully free, as you yourself are not. This means that your own heart is not yet fully open. Otherwise neither of you would be in a committed situation. You would be free!

There is nothing more important than LOVE. Every opening in any heart contributes to the increase of Love on Earth. The opening of hearts is the critical shift which will change our world in all the ways that we all desire.

Please make a connection with God a strong priority in your life and hold in heart the partner with whom you have commitment on the waves of Love you are now feeling. Ask in your communion with God that the highest good of all be served. Each situation is individual but a strong communion with God is the way to expand all hearts and assure that Love will prevail and avenues in service to Love will be opened for all concerned. Do know that God will never judge and the truth of God is Love for all. If it seems best to make a change from prior commitments, it is strongly suggested doing this only after deep communion with God and the assurance of one’s heart.

Is it as significant to meet the twinflame in the physical as it is in the ethereal?

Q. Is it as significant to meet the twinflame in the physical as it is in the ethereal? Is the twinflame energy represented by only one form on this planet, or can the energy be manifested in any form?

A. We invite you to read all the information about Twin Flames in this section of the website. The Messages from God have explained that life on Earth is not real. It is an illusion. Therefore, the bodies are also an illusion. Life in the bodies on Earth represents a very tiny aspect of who we truly are. This is explained in the answers to some of the questions under Welcome Back, Questions You Asked. You may want to explore there as well.

The Twin Flame is a spiritual phenomenon. The Twin Flame is an eternal gift from God, always present (even when not perceived). The most important contact therefore is in consciousness or Spirit. The Twin Flame energy may be reflected in different forms on Earth at different times. Again, this is vibrational and follows the Law of Resonance (like attracts like). Whatever your resonance, that is the resonance you will attract to you in another person.

The Twin Flame energy is the purest Love. The form or person before you will reflect whatever of pure Love your heart is or is not able to hold at any given time. This is why at Circle of Light we encourage people to open the heart so that the person before them may contain the highest energy of the Twin. The condition of your heart is what is reflected in relationship.

The body or person before you is only a container for your own reflection. There is no objective reality, only the reflection of your own deepest truth. The energy CAN manifest in different people at different times. We say, the Twin Flame has been peeking through the eyes of every person with whom you have been close, because the Twin is wanting the closest connection with you possible.

Is it possible for homosexuals to experience the type of soulmate relationship…

Q. Is it possible for homosexuals to experience the type of soulmate relationship described on your website, and if so, how do the masculine and feminine energies complement one another in a relationship such as a homosexual one? Thanks.

A. That is a wonderful question and we are happy to answer it from what we have learned from the Messages from God. God has made it very clear to us that the coming together in relationship on Earth that is a reflection of one’s Twin Flame, the true Twin Flame from the Moment of Creation, has nothing to do with gender in the body on Earth. We have come into these bodies in different genders at different times of our incarnations.

Relationship here on Earth in the bodies reflects the much grander phenomenon of our creation by God as two halves of a cell of God’s heart — Divine Masculine, Divine Feminine. The important thing is that in every relationship reflecting a Twin Flame connection, one half is carrying the Divine Masculine and one half is carrying the Divine Feminine. This refers not to gender, but to the grand forces of Creation. These people may both be in female bodies, or both be in male bodies. This is frequently observable in a same sex relationship.

What about SoulMates at different levels of spiritual development?

Q. What about SoulMates at different levels of spiritual development? I was recently reading on another website, and this particular writer expressed that soulmates would not and do not come together until both have reached a certain level of spiritual maturity. Otherwise ego will enter into these relationships and destroy them.

Based on your experience and knowledge of the twin flame relationship, do you in fact find this to be true? Is it possible that soulmates can come together and be at different stages of ascension and awakening (i.e., one more spiritually “mature than the other”) and what are the implications when and if this is the case.

A. At this time, Love is pouring onto the Earth from our beloved Creator and hearts are opening as never before. This is drawing people to the reflection of their Twin Flame in another as never before.

It is true that the Law of Resonance, like draws like, the basic spiritual law that governs everything, is always operative. Hearts are drawn together by like vibration. So, if two people are deeply drawn together, their hearts are calling to each other. This does not, however, have to do with “spiritual maturity.” Some people who appear to be spiritually focused are still not in their hearts. They are still in a mode of getting (ego) — even wanting to get to ascension, for example, rather than giving which is the pure energy of Love and of the heart.

Though someone can appear to be very “spiritually sophisticated,” he or she is not necessarily more “spiritually evolved” than another who may be very heart centered. Of course, we are never to make a judgment about another. This does mean that if two people have a deep and powerful heart connection, it does not matter how seemingly “awake” one or the other is…the energy of the heart and their Love will lead them forward to God.

What about SoulMates at different levels of spiritual development?

Q. What about SoulMates at different levels of spiritual development? I was recently reading on another website, and this particular writer expressed that soulmates would not and do not come together until both have reached a certain level of spiritual maturity. Otherwise ego will enter into these relationships and destroy them.

Based on your experience and knowledge of the twin flame relationship, do you in fact find this to be true? Is it possible that soulmates can come together and be at different stages of ascension and awakening (i.e., one more spiritually “mature than the other”) and what are the implications when and if this is the case.

A. At this time, Love is pouring onto the Earth from our beloved Creator and hearts are opening as never before. This is drawing people to the reflection of their Twin Flame in another as never before.

It is true that the Law of Resonance, like draws like, the basic spiritual law that governs everything, is always operative. Hearts are drawn together by like vibration. So, if two people are deeply drawn together, their hearts are calling to each other. This does not, however, have to do with “spiritual maturity.” Some people who appear to be spiritually focused are still not in their hearts. They are still in a mode of getting (ego) — even wanting to get to ascension, for example, rather than giving which is the pure energy of Love and of the heart.

Though someone can appear to be very “spiritually sophisticated,” he or she is not necessarily more “spiritually evolved” than another who may be very heart centered. Of course, we are never to make a judgment about another. This does mean that if two people have a deep and powerful heart connection, it does not matter how seemingly “awake” one or the other is…the energy of the heart and their Love will lead them forward to God.

I have been thinking about the statement ‘There’s no way that Love can hurt.’

Q. I have been thinking about the statement ‘There’s no way that Love can hurt.’ In the past I’ve felt that I’ve loved several men, but it wasn’t reciprocated and it hurt. So I’m wondering about that statement. Does that mean I didn’t really love them? that it was just some kind of ego need that I thought was Love?

How can people who are “in Love” fall out of Love? Never being married or divorced, I never quite understood how people who love (or loved) each other can be so cruel to each other. So is this all ego stuff? Do I even know what real Love feels like?

A. You have got it! That was NOT Love. What we often call “Love” on this planet, what we see everywhere (movie stars, magazines, TV etc) are generally mass manipulations of ego. When you really give Love (to a man, to a friend, to anyone), you have no expectations. You are in a giving mode and not a getting or expecting mode. What you were calling Love certainly could have been some kind of ego need. We have all done this over and over because this is what is reversed on this planet. The focus is on getting instead of on giving. When God talks about the illusion in the Message, this is a big part of it.

When people first “fall in Love,” that is the only time many people feel real Love. They are in their hearts, not their little minds. They don’t care what other people think. They are just feeling Love. This is the way we are meant to feel all the time! Can you believe it? We are supposed to live in ecstasy and joy all the time. What happens in marriages is that the ego, expectations enter in. Other people enter in telling the couple that they should expect this or that. They look around and feel they should be like those around them. They are unable to hold their initial beautiful feeling because there is too much pressure from the rest of the world around them.

Twin Flame Love is Love at its highest ideal. The Love between Twin Flames is deeply felt through the heart as pure, natural, completely trusting, tender and eternal. There are no expectations, demands or needs to be fulfilled from the personality. It is based on spiritual truth and deep inner knowing, and is totally unconditional.

Twin Flame Love follows the natural course of Love which is giving, with no expectation of return. Love is always making more of itself and always giving outward to others. Love given through an open heart then receives what has been given multiplied, and continues the cycle of giving in service to God and to humanity. Twin Flame relationships are not yet frequent on Earth. God is now calling every one of us to be willing to open to this kind of Love in the deepest possible way — the Love that is the reflection of the Twin Flame within — to be a part of creating Heaven on Earth, a world of Love and only Love.

Could you give me a summary on SoulMates or Twin Flames to read that brings me up to date?

ABOUT TWIN FLAMES AND RELATIONSHIPS ON EARTH
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A great transformation of unprecedented importance is occurring in our world beneath all that we see around us. It is a return to the truth of our being and the truth that Love and only Love is Real.

A grand, ever-expanding out-pouring of Love is bathing each of us from our beloved Creator at this important moment. The result is that hearts are opening rapidly and these openings of the heart are bringing people all over the planet to feel an increasing desire for deep relationship, true Love, what many call the Love of the SoulMate.

There is nothing more important than the opening of hearts to Love. Every opening in any heart contributes to the increase of Love on Earth. The opening of hearts is the critical shift which will change our world in all the ways that we all desire. We at Circle of Light wish to do our best to add to the growing understanding of what this Love truly is and how it relates to personal relationships on Earth. We, therefore, share with you what we have been given through the Messages from God at Circle of Light.

We Are God Awakening.
Love is all there is. God is only Love. Everything is made of Love. Everything is God. So are we.
We, humanity, are part of a great, limitless, unified consciousness we call God, the Source of All That Is. There is nothing outside of this consciousness and everything within it is awakening and discovering itself in the movement of Love.

Each human being is an expression of the many facets and attributes of God. Each human life expresses the continual opening of the awareness of the Divine Creator to the ever-expanding possibilities of Love. We are God revealing God to God. The living Wholeness that is God is a hologram in which every part contains and is aware of the whole. We are God beings, and whether we are consciously aware of it or not, every particle of us is fully alive and present in every aspect of life.

We live in God and God lives in us. Only on Earth in the world we have created through the perceptions of the ego mind do separations, partitions, segments, individuals appear to exist. And yet, in a mystery beyond the reach of the little mind, each of us is what is called in the Messages from God “both/and.” We are both immersed in the Ocean of Love that is the magnificent wholeness of God AND we can also have the miracle of relationship, the blessing of awareness of and communion with our Source, our Beloved Creator. This communion includes God’s gift to us, our beloved Twin Flame who is the reflection of God’s Love for us.

What about the Twin Flame?
As facets of the great consciousness that is God, each of us is also reflecting the primal forces of Creation, Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine within God, the electrical currents of Creation. This pairing is what we call the Twin Flame (or SoulMate). Each Twin Flame heart expresses a facet of God with its own signature or vibration. Each is truly one being but with two aspects or streams of consciousness (the “two who are one”).

Now, perhaps you are already understanding that the truth of the Twin Flame is far grander, far beyond what we experience as relationship on Earth. The truth of Twin Flames is not about bodies on Earth, or about gender of bodies. Being in bodies here on Earth is only one of many experiences we have all had as beings of consciousness.

The Twin Flame with whom each of us shares expression is NOT simply another person in a physical body to whom you are attracted on the Earth plane or whom you must “find.” The Twin Flame of each being is actually an integral part of your own energy field that is and has always been with you — before, during and after your life in a body.

Even though you may not be able to see or feel this being with your current focus, you have never been apart from your Twin Flame, nor can you be. You were created together and you are the same energy. The Twin Flame is present within, in, around you at all times. This is very different from the perspective that you are alone and separate and must search for someone to complete yourself.

The Nature of Twin Flame Love
The Love of Twin Flames, the Love you share with the being who is a part of your own energy field, is Love at its highest ideal. It is a reflection of God’s Love for all of Creation, a reflection of the Love the Creator has for each one of us. Twin Flame Love is deeply felt through the heart as pure, natural, trusting, tender and eternal. It is based on spiritual truth and deep inner knowing, and is totally unconditional. The vibrational level of this Love is very different from most expressions of Love on Earth. It can be felt during meditation or through purposeful connection through the heart as we open our hearts to Love.

Twin Flame Love always follows the natural course of Love which is giving outward, with no expectation of return or getting for self. Love is always making more of itself and always flowing forth to others. Love given through an open heart then receives what has been given, multiplied, and continues the cycle of amplifying Love and giving, in service to God and to humanity. God is now calling every one of us to be open to this Love in the deepest possible way — the Love that is the reflection of the Twin Flame within — to be a part of creating Heaven on Earth, a world of Love and only Love.

The great out-pouring of Love from the Creator at this time is calling us Home to the essence of who we truly are. We are not limited, beleaguered human beings living a life of turmoil and uncertainty on Earth. We are great beings of Spirit, the very cells of God’s heart who, by our own hand and with our great potential for creativity, have painted ourselves into a box of limitation called life on Earth. We are now being awakened and called to remembrance of who we truly are through the great power of our own hearts. The remembrance of our Twin Flame with whom we were created is a part of that return to our Creator.

How is Twin Flame Love different from most Earth experiences of Love? What about relationships on Earth? How do they fit into the picture?
The conception of Love and relationship here on Earth can present a confusing picture. On the one hand, there are romantic ideals of Love portrayed in our media and entertainment. We are told that relationships are meant to last forever. It is the belief of many people that if they just find the “right person,” all will be perfect in their relationship life. This leads to the search for the elusive “SoulMate” which we have shown cannot be found outside of oneself.

The truth is that most relationships on Earth are not heart-centered but rather, based on getting rather than giving — each partner wanting to get something for oneself from the other. External criteria are often the basis for coming together rather than feelings of the heart. There is much expectation and judgment of the partner when one does not get what one hoped for. This often leads to partnerships filled with tension and unhappiness. Since pure Love is based on giving, not getting for self, the reversal of this understanding of Love has created complex scenarios and many false beliefs about the nature of Love.

Here on Earth most of us have forgotten that we are God beings, and that Love Is All There Is. Our hearts have become clouded and confused by the many experiences of life here over the eons. Imagine your heart as a window pane. As the Love from the Creator pours onto the Earth, your heart receives as much of this Love as it possibly can and then reflects it outward into the world around you as events and people in your life. Perhaps there are smudges on the window pane – feelings of inadequacy or unworthiness, fear, mistrust of Love or relationship.

These “smudges on the window pane” of your heart reflect out into your world and draw to you someone who will play out the very blocks you are holding in your heart. By the Law of Resonance (“like draws like”), the false beliefs we have acquired about ourselves and about Love and relationship will absolutely appear before us in a partner or potential partner. As we open our hearts to deep communion with our Creator and begin to truly feel the Love in which we are held every moment, of which we are made — all of these false perceptions of ourselves as other than Love can dissolve. This is why reconnection with God is the key to joy in every part of our lives, especially relationship.

But what about my Twin Flame, you ask? Is he/she not part of my being? The answer is yes. The Twin Flame has always been loving you and seeking deep connection with you, even as you adventure in a body on Earth. Our hearts are always reflecting before us as much of the purity of the Love of our Twin as we are able to hold at any given time. Every relationship you have ever had has been a reflection of your Twin Flame’s Love, but also containing the fears, hesitations and blocks to Love acquired during our long sojourn on Earth.

In this period of transformation, the Love now pouring onto the Earth as never before and opening hearts is strongly activating the feeling and connection with the Twin Flame within for many people. God is calling us Home. Often this draws someone toward us for relationship in a way never before experienced. This is a reflection of the awakening Love in our hearts. Many people write to us saying that they are feeling Love in a way they never have before.

How is the shift to the heart changing relationships on Earth?
The most powerful impetus of the Love of our Creator is to bring more Love into the world on every avenue possible. The opening of hearts is creating the desire for Love of the Twin Flame and this is reflecting in different ways in relationships in the world.

You may be experiencing very strong feelings for someone you have never met, someone who is prominent in the world and seemingly not accessible but very attractive to you. You may be looking at the relationship you are in with your awakening heart and desiring some changes in the partnership. You may feel strongly drawn to a new relationship but still feel hesitation and doubt. Or you may have had communication within, through the heart, in consciousness, in meditation that you now begin to understand is an experience of your Twin Flame.

All of these possibilities are happening. If you are experiencing confusion with a current relationship, know that the highest vision that we have been given through the Messages from God makes very clear that Love never hurts. Love, if it can be held as a commitment of the heart, can always overcome any ego obstacle in any relationship. Love always creates more Love and will open both of you purely and completely, transforming any blocks to Love.

The little mind often leads us to believe that a change will solve everything. Do your best to hold the highest vibration of Love you can, to connect with your Twin Flame within as pure Love, (see below) and give Love time to work out whatever the situation to the highest good of all.

In all relationships at this time, it is of the utmost importance to remember that your Twin Flame within is always with you and that the Twin Flame is a reflection of the Love of our Creator. Communion with God is the centerpiece of our lives and brings the elevated vibration that keeps the heart open and loving. The more clearly any of us can hold the true resonance of Love present in our heart with our Twin Flame in spirit, the more loving any relationship in the world of symbol before us will be.

How can I connect with and know my Twin Flame?
Most of us have been totally immersed in life on Earth which has been about living and creating with the little mind, rather than the heart. We have been experiencing a great separation from God, our beloved Creator. This is the reason we have not been continually aware of our Twin Flame within who is a part of us and who reflects God’s Love for us. To perceive the other half of our being with whom we were created, one has to shift out of the little mind, open to Spirit and feel with the heart. This is all part of the transformation now occurring which will return us to the deep Love of our Creator and its reflection, our Twin.

The true Twin Flame experience is accessed from within you in still moments through divine feeling, through meditation, through a deep opening of the heart. The starting point for anyone who truly desires to experience the Twin Flame — both within, and/or reflected in your current partner or someone coming toward you — is to open deeply to God. The relationship with the Twin Flame is the reflection of God’s Love for us. Whatever is experienced within through stillness and meditation will reflect in the world without, before you. The beginning of each day is a beautiful time to make this connection. Speak to God and call to your Twin Flame through your heart and begin to “create more and more Love, more and more energy, more and more Light and power, more of that great atomic energy that is the essence of Twin Flame Love.”

For more information, we strongly suggest that you visit the SoulMate, Twin Flames sections on our website, www.circleoflight.net.

SoulMate, Twin Flame Overview